Why Men’s Masculine Power Is A Gift Not A Curse

Masculine power

When I was young I remember noticing that all the bad guys in films were men. It felt like all the prisoners were men, the adulterers were men. I was even told by my teachers that men started all the wars. It felt that if anyone was in pain, chances were it was a man […]

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3 Things Women Say That Men Don’t Understand

Men don't understand

Albert Mehrabian was a psychology professor in the 1970s who famously suggested that only 7% of our communication uses words. This number has been challenged at great length over the years. However, it does point to an important truth. The truth that there is a whole range of ways we communicate beyond the words we […]

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4 A Dirty Word Men Don’t Want You To Know About

Loneliness

There is an epidemic amongst men that they don’t want you to know about. It’s something they’re hiding from you that brings them great shame. They’re hiding it because admitting it exists strikes at the very core of something they learnt a long time ago. Men learnt to hide anything that isn’t consistent with being the […]

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10 Signs You Need More Purpose In Life

Purpose

It’s easy to lose focus on what’s important in life. When I was young I wanted to be a doctor. At the time I knew this was because I loved helping people. However, as I became older I lost connection to my why and took a different path instead. It took me 20 years before […]

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Man 2.0 – A New Definition For What It Means To Be A Man

Man

I grew up in the 1980s on a strict TV diet of alpha macho men; for me, it was Bruce Willis, Burt Reynolds, Arnie, and Sylvester Stallone. If they weren’t jumping off burning buildings, lassoed to a firehose whilst firing a semi-automatic weapon, then they were taking on armies of men single-handedly. In many ways, […]

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2 4 Steps To Create What Women Crave In A Relationship

Intimacy

There’s one important thing women crave in a relationship that you need to understand. It’s something available to us all, that when present will transform your relationships. It will take you to places you’ve never been before and reveal parts of yourself that you never knew existed. It provides a window to your soul, adds […]

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18 7 Things Men Need to Stop Doing In Their Relationship

men

We learn many things when we’re young but learning how to develop a successful relationship is not one of them. We come out of school knowing the square root of 144 and the capital city of Guatemala (Guatemala City in case we went to different schools). But not what skills and qualities are required to […]

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7 3 Magic Words Women Love That Men Need To Learn

Words Women Love

Many years ago I had an argument with my girlfriend that was the most frustrating of my entire life. It was as if I was talking about….you know….what we were talking about, and she was talking about something completely different.  Arguments like this weren’t uncommon at the time and would lead to disconnection, mistrust, anger […]

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2 4 Difficult Truths To Make You A Better Man (And Each With A Pay Off)

Difficult truths

Remember when you were a kid and you thought that the whole world revolved around you? Everything and everyone in life was designed for the sole purpose of how you were going to get precisely what you wanted. Nothing else mattered except you and your pursuit of germs, small animals, inappropriate places to poo and […]

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11 8 Weird Questions Successful People Ask That You Don’t

successful people

We live in a world where everyone is secretly copying everyone else. It’s become so endemic in our society that we barely even realise we’re doing it.  Our desire to be affirmed by others leads us to live within ourselves. Rarely demonstrating the true range of skills and creativity that exists within us all. To bravely step […]

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