Category Archives for "Emotional Intelligence"

3 Things Women Say That Men Don’t Understand

Men don't understand

Albert Mehrabian was a psychology professor in the 1970s who famously suggested that only 7% of our communication uses words. This number has been challenged at great length over the years. However, it does point to an important truth. The truth that there is a whole range of ways we communicate beyond the words we […]

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7 3 Magic Words Women Love That Men Need To Learn

Words Women Love

Many years ago I had an argument with my girlfriend that was the most frustrating of my entire life. It was as if I was talking about….you know….what we were talking about, and she was talking about something completely different.  Arguments like this weren’t uncommon at the time and would lead to disconnection, mistrust, anger […]

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What Type Of Man Are You? And Why You Need To Know

Type of man

What if you were not who you thought you were. What if, like Neo in The Matrix, you spent your whole life believing something false to be true. Something that seems so normal to you that years go by until the truth presents itself. You might not have Morpheus to guide you but there are […]

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5 5 Things Women Want That Men Aren’t Ready to Hear

Women Want

It’s a stereotype as old as time that men don’t understand what women really want. One of the problems in modern relationships is we inherited the template for what they should look like from our parents. Therefore much of our language, beliefs, and behaviours are rooted in the past. What women wanted in their relationships 30 […]

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2 6 Subtle Phrases Men Use That Are Ruining Their Relationship

There’s a saying that our words create our world. If this is true then we should be paying more attention to what we say. I’ve noticed a series of everyday common words and phrases men use that are secretly ruining their relationships. Hidden in this language is a set of destructive beliefs inherited from our childhood. […]

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4 How to Know If Your Relationship Is Going To Last

Relationships come in all shapes and sizes but why do some stand the test of time? While others falter, consigned to memories of the past? What is it that successful relationships have that unsuccessful relationships do not? In my experience, there are two kinds of relationships that last. Those based on growth and those based on […]

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