Category Archives for "Understanding Women"

Stop Saying “Sorry” In Your Relationship – And What To Do Instead

When I was young I was like every other kid, always in and out of trouble. I pushed the boundaries of what was acceptable in order to see what I could get away with. When I pushed, I’d often keep on pushing until someone said “stop.” During my childhood I heard lots of: “STOP!!”  Quickly […]

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One Of The Biggest Reasons Men’s Relationships Turn Sour

Relationship Argument

It was yet another stupid argument that escalated from nothing to a hundred miles an hour in seconds. I’d been there so many times before, entrenched in warfare with us both preparing our defenses and priming our attacks. The intense emotions of the moment always took over, denying me the opportunity that hindsight would later […]

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13 5 Things Women Want That Men Aren’t Ready to Hear

Women Want

It’s a stereotype as old as time that men don’t understand what women really want. One of the problems in modern relationships is we inherited the template for what they should look like from our parents. Therefore much of our language, beliefs, and behaviours are rooted in the past. What women wanted in their relationships 30 […]

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2 3 Things Women Say That Men Don’t Understand

Men don't understand

Albert Mehrabian was a psychology professor in the 1970s who famously suggested that only 7% of our communication uses words. This number has been challenged at great length over the years. However, it does point to an important truth. The truth that there is a whole range of ways we communicate beyond the words we […]

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2 How To Use Your Next Fight To Improve Your relationship

The quality of your relationships is proportional to how well you learn to fight. That’s because it’s actually possible to improve your relationship following your next fight.  Fights lead to more fights which leads to mistrust, distance, disconnection and ultimately to a break down in the relationship. To improve your relationship you need to change […]

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2 4 Steps To Create What Women Crave In A Relationship

Intimacy

There’s one important thing women crave in a relationship that you need to understand. It’s something available to us all, that when present will transform your relationships. It will take you to places you’ve never been before and reveal parts of yourself that you never knew existed. It provides a window to your soul, adds […]

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7 3 Magic Words Women Love That Men Need To Learn

Words Women Love

Many years ago I had an argument with my girlfriend that was the most frustrating of my entire life. It was as if I was talking about….you know….what we were talking about, and she was talking about something completely different.  Arguments like this weren’t uncommon at the time and would lead to disconnection, mistrust, anger […]

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2 6 Subtle Phrases Men Use That Are Ruining Their Relationship

There’s a saying that our words create our world. If this is true then we should be paying more attention to what we say. I’ve noticed a series of everyday common words and phrases men use that are secretly ruining their relationships. Hidden in this language is a set of destructive beliefs inherited from our childhood. […]

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4 How to Know If Your Relationship Is Going To Last

Relationships come in all shapes and sizes but why do some stand the test of time? While others falter, consigned to memories of the past? What is it that successful relationships have that unsuccessful relationships do not? In my experience, there are two kinds of relationships that last. Those based on growth and those based on […]

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